Once, while sitting in the waiting room of a doctor’s
office, I picked up one of those freebie magazines that are often distributed
by such places. This one in particular
had an article that caught my eye because it was talking about developing and
following our intuition. The magazine
was Natural Awakenings from September of 2011, and the article was “A
Path to True Insight: Write from the
Heart.” According to the author, Nancy
Rosanoff, “When we feel good and right about a decision, we often attribute it
to having followed our intuition.” But
what happens when we have no
intuition?
I am terrible
about making decisions. Any decision. Even something as mundane as what to wear or
what to eat for lunch that day. I am
often either overwhelmed by too many decisions, or else I can’t think of a
single one. So you can imagine how hard
it is sometimes for me to start, much less complete
a scrapbook page. Especially one that
has special significance, like the bridal page I did for my anniversary. I have to get completely in my creative zone
to get anything done, and even then I pull out some supplies and I stare at
them. I start on it, but then I
second-guess myself and do something else.
I pull out all my stamps
because I can’t decide which one I want to use. I can drag the simplest project
out for hours due to my indecision.
There are some schools of thought that suggest people like
me should just go with the first thing that comes to mind. That might work for some, but not for me,
because just as sure as I glue down that die-cut title, I will think up some
better way to do it. Then it is either
too late to fix it, or it will require hours
of work to change it. I like the
approach of the article, which encouraged readers to use writing to sort out
the dilemma.
In the article, Rosanoff talks about developing your
intuition using a 4-step writing exercise that helps to move our attention away
from the details of a problem and into an awareness of what is truly needed.
Her steps are:
- Write down your specific concern.
- Below that, write “What I really want is…” and complete the sentence with your natural, immediate response. Repeat this several times, completing the sentence with a different thought each time.
- Next, write, “What this situation really needs is…” and complete it several times as before.
- Be sure not to add “from me” to the sentences above – not even in your thoughts.
Rosanoff’s theory is that by allowing the ideas to flow
through you and onto the page, it will help eliminate any confusion you might
feel and will allow you to make choices based on harmony, clarity, and peace.
When I have a hard time working on a project due to my
indecision, my wonderful hobby becomes a stressful task that I dread. And if it is so stressful, why should I continue? Applying Rosanoff’s steps might help me turn
my crafting time from stressful to blissful.
What do you think?
Today’s 365 project is an art journal entry that I did a
while back, but it comes much later than originally expected due to the simple
fact that I got stuck on one of my
entries. There’s that indecision rearing
its ugly head again. I’m still searching
for that inspiration. I’m hoping these
four little steps will help improve it!
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